Seducing a man without any physical contact is actually very easy to do. The concept is simple: men are very visual, so you can take full advantage of that to drive him crazy. In fact, seduction is certain if you play your cards right because the longer you go without touching him, the more he’ll be going crazy wanting you to.
Setting the Mood Visually
It’s no secret: Men think with their eyes. A visually appealing sight is the most powerful way to grab his attention right off the bat before anything else is said or done.
You don’t have to wear an outfit that is incredibly revealing; if fact, it’s better to show just a hint of skin. When choosing your clothes, think “subtle” and “suggestive.” A dress that shows just the right amount of leg (longer than a miniskirt but shorter than a knee-length pencil skirt) is a great choice.
It’s All in the Sexy Glances
How you look at a man is the next step in seducing him without physical action. Keep your eyes free, meaning if you wear glasses then try switching them out for contacts. Also, keep those pretty peepers obvious by avoiding too much eye makeup.
Look at him with the right amount of sexual energy in your eyes. Batting your eyelashes and a devilishly sexy smile are very powerful tools when creating the right glance.
The Biggest Sex Kitten Rule
Be confident! Don’t shy away from eye contact, and walk as if you have the world in your palm, strutting your stuff. This is the mark of a true sex kitten.
After all, you have nothing to be afraid of. He’s just a man, and you’re a woman capable of blowing his mind.
Your tone of voice is almost as important as your appearance when trying to seduce a man without touching him. Pay attention to your normal speaking voice, and try to find any nervous audio habits; many women laugh too much when they’re nervous, for example. Avoid this.
You want to sound calm and cool, and keep a sexy low-tone in your voice. The keys are to stay calm and not speak too fast or loud.
Make Him Want to Touch You When He Can’t
The biggest key for this is soft skin that draws attention. Moisturize with a lotion that has a hint of shimmer. A sweater that hangs off your shoulders and shows off the silky and luminous skin there is perfect to wear, or a skirt when your legs are especially touchable.
These types of wardrobe tactics really do the trick if you are out in any environment where he knows it’s inappropriate to touch you. Men always want something more when they simply cannot have it.
The Power of Suggestion
Make sure he is paying attention and aching with desire by using clever sentences.
Make sexy suggestions or innuendo that is purely playful and not X-Rated. Insure he’s thinking about you in a sexual/romantic way by asking him a question about his love life or mentioning something at the perfect time that will get his mind reeling.
Pretend He’s Not Watching
Busy yourself with something when he is around and absentmindedly do some sexy feminine tricks as if you don’t realize he’s looking at you.
Play with your hair, bite your bottom lip or lick it naturally, rub your bare legs together sensually while wearing a short shirt, cross and uncross your legs slowly, touch your bare shoulders, etc.
Get Him Alone
After you’ve teased him long enough in a situation or two when he can’t touch you, it’s time to finally get him alone.
He might be dying to touch you by now, but it’s crucial not to give in too soon. The longer you make him look at you and burn with desire, the better.